1. Obvious Cause of Low Self Esteem.
Find out the cause of the feelings, the root of the insecurities and the low self esteem. It might be from past experiences, emotional conflicts, poverty and lack of enough knowledge; a mind to overcome failure.
2. Understand the Reality of Life Hope.
Everything happens for a reason, and not all things are bound to come and stay forever. No matter the cause of your feelings of insecurities, stay with the hope that one day everything will change and the bright sun will shine upon your life. Consider the people that succeeded in a very critical world. Are they even better than you? You may have more opportunity and knowledge that success might become more predictable in your life more than the way they find their selfs succeeding.
3. The Root Doesn't Matter Anymore.
Consider that your root doesn't matter at all to make you deserving in places you go. Build self confidence and since you are still a man from the species of human, you could go anywhere and remain outstanding.
4. Look at Yourself In a Personal Form.
Do not always plan your things allowing your weakness to lead you by leaning always on the people around. Look at your abilities, recall your past achievement and how people appreciate and praise you on that. Remember does things you a capable of doing that are limited to some people in the world. Do you know you could be famous when you do that thing on TV? You know the fact that you deserve and award for that! How many people can do the same thing, just as you can? They are of small number. Always live with the goal to achieve that dreams on every opportunity.
5. Learn to Be Optimistic About Life.
Most of the people I find out complaining about low self esteem are of pessimistic view. Learn to keep your ego on a high level of sureness and perfection. Pessimism that comes from family financial insecurities and inabilities are more prone on youths who need more money and education in order to see their future "on the way" to brightness like other kids. How to overcome such insecurities and low self esteems are also emotional, although they seem more physical. Lets take the next step!
6. Control your mind.
Focus on every small opportunity that might get your way. Low self esteem is all about feelings, and if you have no self security that will depend those feelings from having effect in your life, you cannot just assume you are white while the mirror tells you are black. You must have something to show off. You need something to proud about too. Nothing comes less of those who work for it.
7. Try New Experiences.
Be genuine and reasonable to build the stamina for reaching out to the utmost. Overcome those struggles low self esteem by coming to the reality of your fears. Once you tried that once, you will never feel not deserving . Be ready to face challenges. No one in this world can say he can get over challenges overnight and never get challenged again. Even me as I'm writing this, I know the challenges am facing to help you understand how to overcome insecurities and low self esteem and never to worry about heartbreak or hardship anymore.
8. Discuss With People and Learn From their view.
In most cases you will find out that you are such a great person in some people's world. This is nothing much more than the greatness, opportunities and cleverness they perceive in you. You will be surprised, hundreds of peoples are out looking for a way to become like you.
In summary, in order to overcome insecurities and low self esteem you must also get over nervousness on facing reality and new people. Confidence build reputation in our social life, therefore making us deserving in all situations.
